PORN & CHOICE
ARCHITECTURE

A practical system for managing compulsive pornography use without relying on willpower.

In this course, I combine my years of experience fighting this addiction. I call it choice architecture because simply using willpower and knowledge is not enough for most of us. Intelligently shifting your environment is key but it gets complicated. I share my strategies and thoughts on navigating this strange modern addiction and my intention is for you to recapture and deepen your capacity for love, intimacy and a fulfilling masculine life.

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  • PRACTICAL SYSTEMS

VIDEO LIBRARY

Start wherever something feels useful. New videos will be added over time.

Limits of knowledge and will — video thumbnail

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 01: Limits of Knowledge/Will

An introduction to the limits of knowledge and willpower, recorded at the mountain gym.

YouTube no fap gurus and how they actually are in real life. And some of the aspects of their lifestyles that actually helped them maintain long streaks.

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 02: Truth about Nofap gurus/long streakers

Actual experience around interacting with YouTube no fap gurus and how they actually are in real life.

In the modern world, it is easy to basically be having a low-key existential crisis all the time. Here are some thoughts on the link w/ porn addiction.

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 03: Link bw Existential Crisis & Addictive Behavior

In the modern world, it is easy to basically be having a low-key existential crisis all the time. Here are some thoughts on the link w/ porn addiction.

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 04: Porn is Different than other Drug Addictions

You might not be under a bridge w/ this addiction but it slowly kills your ability to love and capacity for deep intimacy.

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 05: Nofap While Also Learning Game?

Is it possible or realistic to be on nofap while being young and learning game?

Religion, relationships and other internal/external factors for behavioral regulation.

Porn Addiction Choice Architecture 06: Internal Vs External Regulation

Religion, relationships and other internal/external factors for behavioral regulation.

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